Where To Now
This is a question that I am being asked to answer by many of my clients. I am seeing more and more people who have reached the end of their marriages and/or long term relationships. These people are both men and women late 30’s to early 50’s and they come to me looking for answers.
Now the fact that these relationships ended is not in dispute. Most, if not all, say that it was the right thing for them to do and that in the main they are happy with their decision. The difficulty is where do they go from here?
It is a fair question, for many of these clients, internet dating did not even exist when they got together with their previous partner. One must also take into account that their dating skills are very much out of date. Another challenge is that having been with someone for a long time it can also seem inconceivable to be with someone different.
Of course, these are the downsides, the ending of a long term relationship or marriage is also a time of great opportunities. A person can get another chance at the life they want. Also as an adult a person has other choices as to how they want to live their life post relationship. Where to next? The sky’s the limit.